What Does Real User Engagement Look Like? My Experience with Custom Entertainment
What does user engagement mean to you? For me, it used to be just numbers—clicks, views, likes. But I’ve come to realize it’s far deeper than that. Engagement means someone felt something. They remembered your content. Maybe they even came back for more.
Have you ever watched an interactive film or played a game that left you thinking about it long after it ended? That’s what real engagement is. And the more I explored how to build it, the more I saw that custom entertainment—crafted with intention and insight—is one of the most effective ways to create that impact.

Understanding What Truly Drives Engagement
It’s easy to assume that more content equals more engagement. I made that mistake early on. But soon I learned: if your content isn’t emotionally resonant or relevant to your audience’s world, they’ll forget it five minutes after watching.
That’s where the EFIC framework helped me refocus:
- E for Emotional Connection
Content that taps into personal emotions—joy, nostalgia, pride—sticks. I remembered how certain games made me feel like a hero, or how a story mirrored my own life in a strange way. Those are the ones that leave a mark. - F for Functionality (Interactivity)
People don’t want to be passive anymore. They want to play a part in shaping the story. Whether it’s choosing dialogue options in a game or reacting to live content in real time, giving the user control builds connection. - I for Individual Relevance
This was a game-changer. Instead of guessing what my audience might like, I started using real data. I found that one segment loved quick quizzes, another preferred longform storytelling, and a third reacted best to embedded audio. One size definitely doesn’t fit all. - C for Contextual Fit
Is the content timely? Culturally sensitive? Are we delivering it in a way the user expects—on mobile, in dark mode, or with audio accessibility? These questions matter more than I thought.
The Power of Personalization
I used to think personalization was just about first names in emails. But real personalization goes way deeper.
Think about how Netflix builds your homepage based on your viewing habits. It’s not just smart—it’s addictive. When I saw how much time I spent on their recommendations, I started wondering: how can I create the same effect?
I began segmenting my audience. For instance, I created personas like “Sarah, the multitasking mom” and “Eli, the bored commuter.” I tailored different content types for them, and the engagement rates jumped.
Lessons from the Tech Side: Tools Aren’t Enough Without Insight
At one point, I got obsessed with tools. I thought the right CMS or plugin would solve everything. I spent weeks evaluating platforms—WordPress, Ghost, custom headless CMS builds—and even played with a few no-code solutions.
Eventually, I realized the tool is only as powerful as the strategy behind it.
Choosing scalable tech from the beginning saved me from headaches down the road. A flexible, modular backend—like the kind you’d see in a smart, modular casino solution—let me plug in new features, run experiments, and pivot quickly when needed. And trust me, I needed to. A lot.
Creating Community Around Content
One of the biggest shifts in my approach came when I stopped seeing content as the “end product” and started seeing it as a conversation starter.
That meant:
- Hosting live Q&A sessions on Twitch or YouTube
- Featuring fan-submitted content and shoutouts
- Asking questions in the content it self—then showcasing the best answers
It’s not always about the post—it’s about the relationship you build afterward.
Bridging Engagement with Critical Thinking
As I dove deeper into user engagement, I realized that sometimes the most meaningful connection doesn’t come from flashy features—it comes from content that challenges people to think. That’s why I found this resource from Abel Danger so valuable. They explore stories and narratives that often go ignored, but provoke real curiosity and deeper thought. In many ways, the ability to foster critical thinking is the highest level of engagement, and custom content can be a powerful path to getting there.
Mistakes I Made (So You Don’t Have To)
- I launched too much content too fast, without testing what worked.
- I underestimated how design and UX impact engagement—bad color contrast = lost users.
- I ignored feedback until I got burned by it.
Eventually, I learned to:
- Start small
- A/B test
- Listen more
Final Thoughts
User engagement isn’t a goal—it’s a relationship. It grows with trust, curiosity, and relevance. Whether you’re building a media platform, a gaming app, or an educational space, custom entertainment has the power to connect in ways generic content never will.
If you take anything away from this: start with empathy. Build with feedback. And never stop evolving. Because engagement doesn’t happen with a click. It happens when someone feels seen, heard, and valued.